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		<title>Lesson Five:Seven Powerful Ways To Start Your Speech.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 May 2010 00:14:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you missed lesson four, read it up here. You have done a lot of research. You have read books and listened to myriad of audio programs on your subject matter. You have the relevant facts and figures. Finally, the day has arrived. The moment is here. The big question on your mind is-&#8221;How do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.damioluwatoyinbo.com/personal-transformation/lesson-fourthe-four-objectives-of-a-great-speech/" target="_blank">If you missed lesson four, read it up here.<br />
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<p>You have done a lot of research.</p>
<p>You have read books and listened to myriad of audio programs on your subject matter.</p>
<p>You have the relevant facts and figures.</p>
<p>Finally, the day has arrived.</p>
<p>The moment is here.</p>
<p>The big question on your mind is-&#8221;How do I start my speech?&#8221;</p>
<p>You realize that your introduction is very important.</p>
<p>The way you start your speech will determine whether you will captivate your audience and flood their minds with the insight you have or whether you will bore them to tears and leave  the bitter taste of regret in their mouths.</p>
<p>Not to worry.</p>
<p>I have the answer to your questions.</p>
<p>There are several ways to captivate your audience from your first minute on the platform but I want to share just seven of them with you today.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure you will be comfortable with one or two of them and you can begin to apply them immediately.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>1.A CATCHY STATEMENT.</strong></span></p>
<p>Say something profound to get listeners on the edge of their seats.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">2.A THOUGHT-PROVOKING QUESTION</span></strong></p>
<p>Ask a question that makes listeners say &#8220;Oh&#8230;I&#8217;ve never thought about that.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">3.A CAPTIVATING QUOTE</span></strong></p>
<p>You could start by quoting an expert or a highly respected figure.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>4.AN INTERESTING STORY</strong></span></p>
<p>People love listening to stories.</p>
<p>You could talk about something that happened to you or someone you know.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>5.AMAZING FACTS AND FIGURES</strong></span></p>
<p>Consider starting a speech by saying something like this-&#8221;Do you realize that your body produces 100billion red blood cells every day?&#8221;</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>6.A (FUNNY) JOKE</strong></span></p>
<p>Use humur.Most people are attracted to people who make them laugh.</p>
<p>One of the best ways to get your audience to connect with you is to say something funny especially at the beginning of your speech.</p>
<p>Please remember to keep it clean.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>7.INTRIGUING DRAMA</strong></span></p>
<p>Think outside the box.Break the boredom of convention.Do something theatrical if you are comfortable with it and you are sure your audience won&#8217;t find it offensive.</p>
<p>There are a few other ways for you to start your speech but what I have shared with you are time-tested and are guaranteed to help you get your speech started on a good note.</p>
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		<title>Lesson Four:The Four Objectives of A Great Speech.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Apr 2010 00:57:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you missed lesson three, read it up here. “ The four ends of discourse are to enlighten the understanding, please the imagination, move the passion, and influence the will.” George Campbell I told you in lesson one, that every speech must have a clearly defined objective. The cardinal objective of your speech is what you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://www.damioluwatoyinbo.com/personal-transformation/lesson-threethe-three-key-elements-of-every-speech/" target="_blank">If you missed lesson three, read it up here.</a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">“ The four ends of discourse are to enlighten the understanding, please the imagination, move the passion, and influence the will.”<br />
<span style="color: #800000;"><strong>George Campbell</strong></span></p>
<p><a href="http://www.damioluwatoyinbo.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/objectives.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-684" title="objectives" src="http://www.damioluwatoyinbo.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/objectives.jpg" alt="" width="400" height="314" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I told you in lesson one, that every speech must have a clearly defined objective.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The cardinal objective of your speech is what you intend to achieve with your speech.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">With that in mind, you must also realize that every speech you make should accomplish the following as well:</p>
<h2 style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #800000;">1.Enlighten the understanding&#8230;Your Speech should be INFORMATIONAL</span></h2>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Don&#8217;t fill your speech with fluff.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Let those who listen to you feel privileged.Give them vital and relevant information.There&#8217;s no point talking to a plumber about the magnetic forces in the galactic course ways&#8230;that&#8217;s to the astronaut.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The information you share should be relevant to your audience.</p>
<h2 style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #800000;">2.Please the imagination&#8230;Your Speech should be INSPIRATIONAL</span></h2>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Paint pictures on the hearts of your listeners.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Let your speech take their imagination to heights unknown.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Be inspirational.You could ask a question such as &#8220;What if you woke up one day and you realized you had the power to fly?&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">That question will provoke their thoughts.While many people would think you are talking literally, you could flip the switch and use that as a metaphor.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">You could pause for a while and then say&#8221;I have good news for you-the truth is you do have the power to fly and over the next 30 minutes, I will teach you how to spread the wings of your potential and soar to new heights in your business&#8221;</p>
<h2 style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #800000;">3.Move the passion&#8230;Your Speech should be MOTIVATIONAL</span></h2>
<p style="text-align: justify;">It is important for you to create the picture of a desirable future in their hearts.It is equally important to challenge them to take the necessary steps NOW!</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Motivate them.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">You could share a personal story of our you overcame inertia and did something you never believed you could do.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">You may never realize how valuable your experiences are until you share them with other people.</p>
<h2 style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #800000;">4.Influence the will&#8230;Your speech should be TRANSFORMATIONAL</span></h2>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Most importantly, your speech must CHANGE A LIFE.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Change the way someone speaks.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">IF YOUR SPEECH WOULD NOT MAKE A DIFFERENCE, THEN YOU MIGHT AS WELL KEEP QUIET.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">You could rearrange these four points to form <span style="color: #800000;"><strong>T.I.I.M</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Transformational</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Informational</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Inspirational</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Motivational</strong></span></p>
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		<title>Lesson Three:The Three Key Elements of Every Great Speech.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Apr 2010 01:23:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you missed lesson two, read it up here. I hope you are learning as much as you can. I look forward to meeting you someday, perhaps at the airport on your way to a United Nations event  to make a presentation or at a conference where we&#8217;d be speaking. It would be such a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.damioluwatoyinbo.com/personal-transformation/lesson-twothree-parts-of-every-meaningful-speech/" target="_blank">If you missed lesson two, read it up here.</a></p>
<p>I hope you are learning as much as you can.</p>
<p>I look forward to meeting you someday, perhaps at the airport on your way to a United Nations event  to make a presentation or at a conference where we&#8217;d be speaking.</p>
<p>It would be such a delight for me and the thousands of people you will empower if you will apply the simple secrets that I&#8217;m sharing with you today.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s why I consider it a privilege to make this investment in your speaking career.</p>
<p>Today, I want to tell you about the three key elements of every great speech.</p>
<p>Now this is different from the three parts of your speech.</p>
<p>These three elements are powerful ingredients that must use in every speech if you want your audience to keep listening long after you have finished speaking.</p>
<p>They take their roots in ancient Greece.</p>
<p>The ancient Greek orators studied the most effective speeches ever made in all of history and reached the conclusion that all those speeches had these three elements.</p>
<p>You can be sure that they will go a long way in making your speeches impactful and unforgettable.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>1.ETHOS</strong></span></h2>
<h2><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>This is the root word for &#8220;ethics&#8221;.</strong></span></h2>
<p>It refers to the your integrity as the speaker as well as the character of your message.In essence, it refers to your credibility, sincerity and believability.</p>
<p>The more credible you are as a speaker, the more receptive your listeners will be.</p>
<p>For instance, people would rather listen to a medical doctor deliver a speech on HIV/AIDS than they would a motor mechanic.Similarly, the average audience would rather listen to a motor mechanic deliver a speech on automobile repairs than a medical doctor.</p>
<p>&#8220;Ethos&#8221; is also demonstrated in your mannerisms, accent and intonation.</p>
<p>Your message will be better received if you are natural and authentic.</p>
<p>It is necessary to learn from others but you must always stay true to yourself.</p>
<h2><strong><span style="color: #800000;">2.LOGOS</span></strong></h2>
<h2><strong><span style="color: #800000;">This is the root word for &#8220;logic&#8221;.</span></strong></h2>
<p>Every speech must be logical.</p>
<p>Remember that in lesson one, I mentioned that public speaking is &#8220;&#8230;deliberate and structured&#8230;&#8221;You cannot affored to ramble or take your audience for granted.</p>
<p>Whenever you are privileged to speak in public, ensure that your presentation is logical, systematic, intelligent.</p>
<p>This boils down to two things-research and reflection.</p>
<p>Research will provide you with facts and figures.</p>
<p>Reflection will help you organize those facts and figures in a way that will reinforce your message.</p>
<p>Your arguments should be reasonable.</p>
<p>This can only happen if you reason.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #800000;">3.PATHOS</span></h2>
<h2><span style="color: #800000;">This is the root word for &#8220;passion&#8221;</span></h2>
<p>This refers to emotions, sympathy and imagination.</p>
<p>PATHOS deals with the emotional appeal of your presentation.</p>
<p>Every effective speech has an emotional component.</p>
<p>People buy things for emotional reasons not for logical reasons.</p>
<p>Think about the several women who have as many as 50 pairs of shoes in their closets.More often than not, they keep those shoes because of how they &#8220;feel&#8221; when they wear them.</p>
<p>If you watch the adverts on CNN or BBC and other global TV networks, you&#8217;d see how much emphasis advertisers place on the emotional component of their products.</p>
<p>In essence, people are emotional.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s important to take note of this because every speech is like a sales pitch.</p>
<p>You want your audience to buy into your message or mindset so you must have the right emotional appeal to match your objective.</p>
<p>You don&#8217;t smile when you ought to be sober neither do you frown when you are making an exciting point.</p>
<p>Moreso, avoid speaking in a monotone.</p>
<p>Infuse emotions-anger, joy, sobriety, fear, desperation, confidence, displeasure, satisfaction, serenity and other emotions when necessary.</p>
<h2>Let&#8217;s go over the three <strong><span style="color: #800000;">key elements</span></strong> again:</h2>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">1.Ethos-your integrity and the character of  your message.<br />
</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">2:Logos-reasoning, facts and figures.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">3.Pathos-emotional appeal and imagination.</span></strong></p>
<p>Watch out for lesson three.</p>
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		<title>Lesson Two:Three Parts of Every Meaningful Speech.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Apr 2010 19:42:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you missed lesson one, read it up here. Let&#8217;s talk about the three parts of every MEANINGFUL speech. Please take note of the word &#8220;meaningful&#8221; because there&#8217;s no point making a speech if it&#8217;s not meaningful. The first is THE INTRODUCTION. Your introduction tells your audience what you are going to tell them. It [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.damioluwatoyinbo.com/personal-transformation/lesson-onewhat-on-earth-is-public-speaking/" target="_blank">If you missed lesson one, read it up here.</a></p>
<p>Let&#8217;s talk about the three parts of every MEANINGFUL speech.</p>
<p>Please take note of the word &#8220;meaningful&#8221; because there&#8217;s no point making a speech if it&#8217;s not meaningful.</p>
<p>The first is THE INTRODUCTION.</p>
<p>Your introduction tells your audience what you are going to tell them.</p>
<p>It is inappropriate to dive into the heart of your message from the moment you mount the stage.</p>
<p>It is necessary to have an introduction.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d talk about several ways of starting a speech much later in this series.</p>
<p>The second part of YOUR SPEECH is THE BODY.</p>
<p>The body of your speech is the heart of your message.</p>
<p>Here you tell them what you promised to tell them.</p>
<p>The body of your speech is &#8220;the meat of the matter&#8221;.</p>
<p>The third part is THE CONCLUSION.</p>
<p>The conclusion is a recap of what you told them in the body of your speech.</p>
<p>It may seem simple but a lot of people who speak in public have no clue about how important this is.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;d find it useful someday.</p>
<p>Watch out for lesson three.</p>
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		<title>Lesson One:What On Earth Is Public Speaking?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Apr 2010 16:32:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Public Speaking is simply the art of speaking in public. Did I hear you say &#8220;duh&#8221;? Well,let&#8217;s have a more elaborate definition. I define it as the PROCESS of Speaking to a GROUP of PEOPLE in a STRUCTURED and DELIBERATE manner intended to inform, influence or entertain the listeners. Please notice that I wrote some [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;">Public Speaking is simply the art of speaking in public.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Did I hear you say &#8220;duh&#8221;?</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Well,let&#8217;s have a more elaborate definition.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">I define it as the PROCESS of Speaking to a GROUP of PEOPLE in a STRUCTURED and DELIBERATE manner intended to inform, influence or entertain the listeners.</span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Please notice that I wrote some words in uppercase.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">That&#8217;s because I want you to pay attention to them.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">PUBLIC SPEAKING IS A PROCESS.</span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">It is different from rambling or gisting.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">It starts with a central thought which is then followed by a careful deliberation before speech production.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">An effective public speaker thinks before he talks.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Dionysius of ancient Rome said &#8220;make sure your speech is better than silence or be silent&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>YOUR SPEECH MUST BE STRUCTURED.</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Every speech should have an introduction, a body anda conclusion.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">When you are having a personal conversation with a friend, you can afford to talk about different things at the same time but it&#8217;s not the same when you are addressing a group of people.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">When you speak in public, each word you speak should express your central thought or message.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The third point you should note is that <strong><span style="color: #800000;">YOU SHOULD BE DELIBERATE WHEN YOU SPEAK IN PUBLIC.</span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">What does that mean?</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">It means you should match your movements and medium should match your message.Prune your speech so that you don&#8217;t waste words.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Every expression-verbal, facial and otherwise should drive your message further into the hearts of your audience.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Finally, <strong><span style="color: #800000;">EVERY SPEECH YOU MAKE MUST HAVE A WELL DEFINED OBJECTIVE.</span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Before you make any speech, determine your objective.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Do you want to inform your audience?</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Do you want to motivate them?</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Do you want to entertain them?</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Your objective will determine a lot of other things including your choice of words, style of dressing as well as mode of delivery.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">So let&#8217;s go over the four points again:</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">1.PUBLIC SPEAKING IS A PROCESS.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">2.YOUR SPEECH MUST BE STRUCTURED.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">3.YOU SHOULD BE DELIBERATE WHEN YOU SPEAK IN PUBLIC.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">4.EVERY SPEECH YOU MAKE MUST HAVE A WELL DEFINED OBJECTIVE.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">That&#8217;s it for now.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Stay tuned for the next lesson.</p>
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